zero sperm count

[kelstar]

My husband was told just before xmas that he has a zero sperm count. I biopsy was done and they didn't find anything. Everyone keeps telling us to just accept it, we will have to use a donor or adopt. Adoption isn't an option as we wanted a baby not a 3 or 4 year old and after the waiting list and with our age restrictions this is all we would be able to adopt. My husband was also adopted and would prefer not to go down that road. Has anyone spoken to a counsellor before and does it help? We have very good communicaion between us but are both struggling to come to terms with the whole idea of not being able to have a child that we are both the biological parents of. Any ideas on how to cope would be great.